We must define and decide what we want to be happy and satisfied and then write it down. This is how we start to change our lives.
If we have problems, in our marriage for example, the first thing we should do is sit down with our partner and be very clear and direct: What do we really want from our relationship?
At some point in our marriage we realize that being married is more than just hormones. A good marriage depends on two people understanding what they really want and whether they want to share it.
At the time of writing what we feel, what hurts us, what we want or what we would like to change, we must bear in mind that we must be totally honest and clear with each other, and give our significant other space to do so.
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